The father of the little girl Madonna wants to adopt says the star’s wardrobe means she is not fit to be Mercy’s mum.
The singer, 50, put on bunny ears, a revealing minidress and thigh-high boots to attend New York’s biggest fashion night on Monday. She was accompanied by her on-off toyboy Jesus Luz, 22.
But Mercy James’ dad James Kambewa – who has never met his daughter – says he and many in his country of Malawi were deeply offended by the get-up.
James, 24, told a newspaper: “I cannot imagine how this woman can want to be the mother of my Mercy.”
“This can’t be a woman of 50. A teenage woman would feel ashamed in that gear.”
“A woman is supposed to be a role model for her daughters.”
“What morals can a woman of 50 have, who has no qualms in showing her delicate parts and displaying herself like that in front of her children?”
“I don’t want my daughter anywhere near such a moral-less person.”
Meanwhile, The Sun can reveal that Madonna will campaign to change the law if her bid to adopt is blocked because she is single.
She fears she may lose her appeal to take home Mercy, three, as her marriage to Guy Ritchie is over.
A source said yesterday: “If she fails on the grounds of her divorce she will be absolutely livid.
“Madonna has always been a tough independent woman and is now, more than ever, of the opinion that she doesn’t need a man for anything in her life.
“If she falls at the last hurdle because of her marital status, it will be hard to swallow. She is already talking about starting a campaign for single mums to be allowed to adopt the world over.
“She believes if you have love to offer, the fact you are divorced, widowed or unmarried should not be seen as a barrier.”
Another pal said director Guy, 40, feels “very guilty” that their split may derail the adoption.
The star’s appeal against a court refusal to let her adopt Mercy began on Monday. A decision is due in the next two weeks.
source: the sun
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That “daddy” is moral less person not Madonna!
Lord this from a man in africa— If you wanna get dont to it — a woman and a man is suppossed to be able to feed and clothed their child as well… keep the little cockroach in poverty then
f..k you mercy james dad you are so jealous for madonna
madonna will kick asss again in this concert
Well, Letterman is at it again.
2 nights in a row and 2 more Madonna sex jokes.
so u must be the one who kiss Letterman’s pathetic ass for good?
fuck off AnchorMan or whatever kind of dog you are!
fuck you you maggot dick jello in your WIDE asshole
why of course you little faggot…
Stacy! like she sayed, YOU ONLY SEE WHAT YOUR EYES WANT TO SEE! and the celebrity world say’s DONT BELIVE WHAT YOU READ IN THOSE MAGZ! and i would say: OPEN YOUR HEART , AND KEEP IT TOGETHER!
SEE! thats why she dosent read this kind of sh*t!
AND, ZIPPED MOTHER F*KRS SHES MADONNA AND SHE CAN WEAR WHAT EVER SHE F^KIN WANTS!
LOVES J!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-hrQHE2KfF4
WOW…Madonna must have really shot her load on Monday night…she hasnt been seen or heard from since!
Haha…Don’t worry, I’m sure she and the rest of the gang are cooking up some wacky scheme and looking to get into mischief. We will see the usual suspects resurface again this Saturday at the Kabbalah Center. All with their jeans, shades, and crazy-cool fedoras!
there was an after-party…and maybe an after-after party with jesus….lucky motherf*cker girl.
RIGHT!..you know they had fun….he better enjoy this ride while it lasts!.
I hope she didnt have to stay in all week because when she woke up Tuesday morning she could barely walk from wearing those LV boots all Monday night!…shes not 20 anymore.
No, she’s not 20 anymore but she sure feels like a 21 y/o inside. If you know what I mean … ;) haha
This 24 yo man/boy has been runnin away from the responsibility of takin care of his baby for the past 3 years and now his judgin Madonna and calling her “moral-less” for wearin some “revealing dress”!! how fancy.
Anyway,i thought Madonna’s dress was nifty! i mean,if you got it,flaunt it!
Why don’t you GROW UP you stupid BIG JESSIE.
hmmm i think you are the one that need to grow up Paul you nasty troll
I feel like being moral less today!
I love you FARTO
((big hug))
farto is mine bitch!
theres my man!…whats up Peter?.wink wink…u tell me.
whats up is my cock everytime you are near!! Farto yeah bitch!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-R7_WJSDiL0
WHAT THE POINT OF THAT VIDEO???
SUCK IT HARD FARTO
I like it….what the hells your problem?
FUCK OFF BITCH !!!!!!
NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS!
okkkkkkk nasty……miserable dweeb.
NO YOUR FUCKING MOM IS…
Here’s a solution, don’t even watch the stupid videos that Farto posts. He’s only here to piss Madonna fans off. I, for, one, won’t even be looking at the video. I’m not giving Farto the pleasure.
I’m suprised people are evaluating Madonna’s ability to be a mother based on her sexual conquests. I respect everyone’s opinion and their right to express themselves but I never for a second thought Madonna wasn’t an excellent mother. I obviously don’t know her but there has never been the slightest indication that she is anything but a loving mother. I’m not the biggest fan of Madonna the person but her sex life is her business and not a barometer of her ethics or ability to love & support a child. From my understanding, the lower court denied the adoption based on the laws of residency & there was never a single mention of her ability to be a solid mum or any silly judgment about her morals. I’ve said before that the experts should decide the adoption case but it’s sad that in 2009 some people are still so prudish and closed-minded. I still hope that the resolution reached is ultimately the best one for Mercy and that it’s reached through objective decision-making.
Let us know if you feel the same way, when your 50-something mother leaves your father, for your 21-year old best friend. Would you be cool with that also? After all, it doesn’t effect you. If your Mom and best friend are happy, thats all that matters. Not how it may effect you or the rest of the family. :)
That’s a nice hypothetical but has anything Madonna ever done indicated that she would do anything other than put her children first? Actions do speak volumes over words and, from what I’ve seen, she has always put her children first. Having a major career and a love life doesn’t negate that. I understand what you’re saying but I still think that one thing (an eclectic love life) does not necessarily equal another (bad mothering).
But what message does it send your kids, esp your daughter? That its okay to be involved with men while you are still married to another? that its okay to help destroy the home/family of another woman (ie cynthia rodrigez), that its okay to go after just about any guy you want b/c you can? That’s the message she wants to teach her daughter? That men/women/love is disposable?
I know what you are saying as well, and I respect that. But c’mon, her sexual choices will effect her children. Sooner or later.
stacey – get a fuckin’ clue
Stacey – you cast so many harsh judgements and hate against someone you have never met or know and base your opinion on by the tabloid media and btw Madonna did not leave Guy for his 21 year old best friend on the flip side to your arguement based on your ASSUMPTIONS of Madonna what message would it send her kids to stay in a failed marriage just for the sake of being sure the “proper message” was in place while the kids endure an unhappy home life? BTW you are at the wrong website if you are expecting Madonna to conform to what some in society deem that she should be based on their conservative ideals.
SHARDY, YOU NEED TO GET A CLUE YOU MOTHER FUCKING CUNT!
FUCK YOU ALL!
Mike, I don’t have hate toward anyone. I’ve respected everyone’s view on this board. Whether I agree with them or not. I’ve never verbally attacked anyone w/slander or hostility. Unlike many other people have done to fellow posters w/o knowing them personally.
And yeah I don’t know Madonna personally, but lets face it we are all either casting our opinions about whether she is good/bad based on what we read and know. How do you know she is good? you don’t. How do i know she is “bad”? i don’t really, but based on what info I have. And what info I do have she did commit adultery w/A-Rod and Jesus…His wife has even stated so. But okay,if you want to question A-Rod affair and are doubtful about it…fine. But she was w/Jesus well before the marriage was decreed in divorce. In my book, and majority of people around the world, that’s wrong. If that is a conservative view, if thinking adultery is conservative, then yeah I guess i’m stupid that way and conservative to hold the sanctity of marriage to a high level.
I’m not against divorce obviously if its not working, its not working. I think it was just a questionable move for her to take 2 lovers before her marriage even ended. Also, yeah, I do think its disgusting that she is with a kid who is 30-years younger than her. 30 years! And this has nothing to do w/a double standard regarding men-women. and no i’m not closed minded at all. You know alot of you feel the same way, but just don’t want to go against Madonna, to cast her in some negative light. Well, I like her music, but I’m not about to compromise my beliefs for her.
Stacey – yes but you don’t understand the private details of the final days of the marriage between guy and madonna – the marriage was already compromised/over before it was officially over in a court of law so your term of “adultry” is not accurate and once again you are basing her morality on tabloid headlines.
Mike, I’m sorry that doesn’t grant either party to go and screw anyone just b/c the court of law hasn’t stamped it over yet. Okay, aside from that, why would she hookup w/A-rod knowing that he is married, and has a wife and children? Doesn’t matter that he is scum, why would she do that to another woman and her children? Thats not right is it? And did she need to go into another relationship so soon. I would think that after such a hard time w/the divorce, she would leave men alone for some time. But fact is, Madonna has never been w/out a man in her life. Even with Sean, she moved right on dating JFK Jr. and then to his friend warren Beatty. I would think she’d have grown a bit. Anyway…
Stacey – once again ignorant and quick to judge without knowing any REAL FACTS -
Mike, up to this point I haven’t called you ignorant or stupid or anything. i’ve been commenting on the topic. So why do u need to get so personal?
And like YOU know the facts? YOU know her personally to know what went on in the marriage and her alleged affairs? If so, please enlighten us all.
I agree with you Scott!
getting a young girl pregnant, then leaving her, to die,
and her child to an orphanage, then appearing out of nowhere
to claim the child after a wealthy american superstar shows interest
yet, the “father” labeling M as “moral-less”
is like the pot calling the kettle black – literally
pathetic.
“shows interest”….sounds like she buying a house!
I couldn’t agree with you more, Shardy.
This guy hasn’t even MET his ’supposed’ daughter yet, and now that Madonna has shown an interest, he wants to step in, ‘act’ like he’s her father and call Madonna moral-less?
What a loser.
The British press has a real obsession with destroying this adoption just to get back at her. The level of viciousness is sickening.
why do they want to get back at her?
The 3rd world bugs me.
Eddie!…what about the 1st and 2nd?
the 2nd is pointless.
the 1st will annihilate us.
LOLLLLLLLLLL very True!
Exactly! what about us in the West. Just because we have modern conveniences, doesn’t make us any better than anyone else in the world. Thats a very ethno-centric comment Eddie. We have problems w/hunger, homeless, child abuse, spouse abuse, rape, homicide…everything. Our laws may be different, but we still have problems.
You can’t judge another country or people just by what you read in the press. They too are human and just want the best for themselves and their people. Very unfair comment.
meh.
lol!
RON=EDDIE=SHARDY
YOU BASTARD ASSHOLES!!
GO TO HELL!
ONLY SHARDY WOULD LAUGH AT HIS OWN JOKES!
FUCK YOU ALL!!!
FAKE JERRY=ASSHOLE
From what is all poepels comeing to here if not that they aere not to likeing this qeen Maddona.It is here onlly from these that her are loveing.To go to this othre plases if from which resons yuo are her not likeing.
and I also just want to say that at times I might be rude and very opinionated….but ALOT of you act like a bunch of stupid dumb vulgar trashy ho’s on here….and when you see that kind of language with my name attached…then you know its NOT me…so dont believe the cheap vulgar granny imitators..ok, im done, thanks for listening!
Madonna wants another baby..Mercys father, like David’s father, wants money..the judge wants to be the hero who might say no to Madonna and the world…but who is REALLY looking out for Mercy? The whole story is ugly and disturbs me…I seriously believe, that to make a point, the judge is going to NOT grant the adoption…..any thoughts?
very thoughtful farto
I find it amazing that the supposed father of mercy who has never met her or shown an interest until now – as a farmer who earns $20.00 a month all of a sudden has enough time to make daily comments about madonna and what she has been doing the day earlier. Additionally not only is his thought process primitive – how dare he question morals when he deserted his own daughter.
Why is his thought process limited?
sorry……primitive?
Yes, Farto, Primitive.
I know it’s a big word for you, so I’ll give you the definition:
‘Primative’ – unaffected or little affected by civilizing influences; uncivilized; savage; simple or unsophisticated’…
There, does that help?? What a fucking douchebag you are.
i love Madonna and all the Stuff hahha
patricia. 1. cuz you need a men in your life doest men madonna need it too. 2. is look like youre a freaky fan, know the naame about all the men who madonna work even madonna remember their. one think is a colaboration, everyone need a men and woman I callto the market and send food so eeverymoment, another thing is LOver, Husband! this is the real thing!,, sshe no need it, how you can know jesus is her lover? , you dont know nothing!! I see it over and over again people try to down madonna and try to look like their life is not sso much diferrent, like a human bieng, dirty and stupid, but the real true is another! only thing that you do and madona do, is eat, go to the toiler. you know madonna, no esther and whhat is more deep and no a purpose joke made by her?. yes !! you juzge to madonna the “artist”. and of course you are so rong. so dear particia, you life have to get better becuase the time goes by so quickly! tick tock tick tock
I would try to respond to this properly…but I have no idea what the hell you are going on about?
As for who Madonna has collaborated with… that’s common knowledge with any Madonna fan. Nothing freaky about that. That’s the only thing I could make out in your rant. Sorry.
The father of Mercy is absloutely correct. Madogga is completely SHAMELESS. She is a disgrace to not only the femele sex, but to the human race.She herself admitted she lost her virginity as a career move. There is nothing more to say. She is pure FILTH.
ahaha.madonna is great.mercy father is a lier.he never saw his daughter and now that madonna wants to adopt mercy he shows up???someone wants money
Yeah…I think the same
She is moral-less when he basically fucked the mom left her pregnant and abandoned his daughter in an orphanage since birth? really?
Im pretty sure the whole story is made up by the media and he has never said anything like that :)
of course
It’s a shame that most of the third world is so backwards and doesn’t understand freedom and how people should be allowed to express themselves. I think when Mercy gets older, she may resent the very people that are trying to stop this adoption. As the opportunities and quality of life she would have experienced will be so much better.
Don’t judge so quickly. This man doesn’t know how the media works and how they can change whatever you say. I’m not so sure he really did say all these things.
And don’t forget, this news came from ‘the sun’. If you don’t like to read crap like this just read another newspaper!!
talking about morals…..does anyone know that mercy’s mother was a 12 (twelve)yo baby when she got pregnant.This full of morals man was 21!that’s rape!And disappeard as soon as he knew she was pregnant.Of course this is a no one uneducated man who is manipulated by this sick media.he already knows what she wore 2 days ago…..for a country with no TV and most of people never heard about madonna he is very well informed..
where did you get the information that mercy’s mother was 12 when she got pregnant??
i heard she was 14( still pedophilia)
what’s the source of this news?
“Madonna has always been a tough independent woman and is now, more than ever, of the opinion that she doesn’t need a man for anything in her life”
Yeah, so that is why she goes from man (Guy) to adulterous man (Alex R) to man-child (Jesus)… Because she doesn’t need a man in her life for anything. Right? Please. Just in her bed. If she didn’t need a man in her life, she wouldn’t have been screwing around w/Alex (“just friends”…yeah, how come we don’t here about these “friends” hanging out anymore and taking helicopter rides to the Hamptons anymore) nor would she be with Jesus. She would have taken time for herself and her kids after the divorce and sworn off men for a while.
And quite frankly, all the main creative people she has worked with have been men. From music producers to fashion houses and to photographers. The real creative team have all been men. The women in her life seem to be her co-manager (Angela), her assistants, and nannies. So, she definitely needs men in her life!
Very true… You forgot her dad and her brother Christopher. A lot of men have been there all along her career to help her in any way they could… Jelly Bean Benitez, Carlos Leon. If it wasn’t for Carlos Lourdes would not exist today. And what about the gay guys in 1990 who taught her how to vogue. Sean Penn, Warren Beaty, Tony Ward, Denis Rodman… The list of men go on and on. So, yeah she doesn’t need any men…
JR you are right. Forgot to mention her father. He is whom she attributes her work ethic too all the time. And apparently, even though she hated his rules growing up, that’s how she seems to be raising her own kids.
But then there was also her ballet teacher Christopher Flynn. Dan Gilroy who taught her guitar. Not to mention David Bowie (her musical/visual influence) And then the various male music video directors (except Mary Lambert), chroeographers… all men. But you mention Tony Ward and Dennis Rodman. They were lovers, but I doubt they had any creative influence on her.
She always says that her mother has been an influence in her life, I’m sure that is true. But the major creative influences and partners in her work have been men.
This entire story seems made-up and fake. I don’t think the father nor Madonna are saying any of these things. Smells like cooked-up media-stew to me!
this fucking asshole what the hell is thinking…. At leas madonna can give her a better life… I cant believe this guy is such as vil selfish. He should leave the girl alone 4ever as he been doing since she born. And keep his opinion about the adoption
totally agree …
this “father” sucks! i hope madonna can adopt mercy soon!
morals? jesus, what century are we in that people are STILL yapping about “morals”? anyway, he should talk. at least madonna isn’t the one who sperminated a teenage girl and then deserted her when she became pregnant. yuck. this man is simply an opportunist. where was he the past 4 years of mercy’s life? mercy has relatives who knew she was alive. i am sure that at some point in the last 4 years they found a way to let him know about mercy’s existence. madonna is an excellent mother. just look at lola, rocs and david. they look like very healthy, balanced and happy human beings. and they look like they are very close to their mother.
FAther of mercy is a shame…
Guy should tell madonna to fuck off once and for all
And why do you come to a site dedicated to Madonna to bag her? Wow – you really NEED to get a life.
if you don’t like Madonna,You really can FUCK OFF!
GREAT ANSWER, CUNT!
OMG FARTO i thought you are not that rude … :(
NOT ME!!!!!!!FAKE FARTO!!!!!..
.I wouldnt say that!…thats my granny stalker again tryin to be cool!
you are a fucking jelaous puta because madonna is great and beautiful and if guy still care madonna s situation is because he was her husband along 8 years ok!!! And u maybe has been single and bitter your whole life… Perra esta…
FARTO & HANNAH YOU TWO FUCKING BITCHES
SHUT THE FUCK UP & GO TO THE FUCKING HELL!
FUCK YOU ALL
FARTO = CHEAP DICKHEAD
HANNAH = CHEAP 2$ WHORE
nasty lowlife
NO YOUR WHORE MOM IS