“The Day I Met Madonna”
She idolised her as a teenager, but what did beauty director Lisa Oxenham think of her heroine in person?
ONE OF MY MOST cherished childhood memories is from 1986. I’m nine years old, sitting next to the record player with my mum and 12-year-old sister as we sing along to La Isla Bonita. I don’t know how many times we played that True Blue album, but I still love listening to it even now. It’s safe to say I was a fan. I copied what Madonna wore – down to the last lace hairband – and watched Desperately Seeking Susan so many times I wore out the VHS tape.
I’m familiar with the adage that you should never meet your idols, because they are inevitably going to be a disappointment. But when I was invited to New York to interview Madonna for her new fragrance, Truth or Dare, that possibility didn’t even enter my head. This is Madonna we’re talking about! The inspiration I’d grown up with and the star I cried over when I saw her at the 02 as an adult. I’ve interviewed some big celebrities before, including Kate Moss, Kylie Minogue and Julia Roberts. But this is different; she’s my idol.
When I walk into the boardroom of Macy’s New York, Madonna is sitting at the table. She is slender, but not skinny. Her body is in great shape and her muscles don’t bulge as much as you see in pictures. I think the shadows make these press shots worse. She’s wearing a black lace Dolce & Gabbana dress and sky-high Louboutins. To my trained beauty eye I can see she’s wearing hair extensions, but her skin is glowing. Everyone I’d told that I was meeting Madonna wanted to know about her face, whether there are any telltale signs of surgery. I can honestly say that what strikes me the most is the intensity of her blue eyes. She holds a gaze for slightly longer than feels comfortable – useful for intimidating journalists.
The interview goes well. She is happy, friendly, open, but surprisingly nervous. She’s very different from the sassy loudmouth we see on stage. She is also a true go-getter, who knows how to project herself as both a performer and a professional high-achiever. It’s easy to forget that as well as being the queen of pop, she’s also one of the most successful businesswomen of our age. Can Madonna the person ever match up to the myth? I suppose it’s difficult, for anybody to match up to 30 years’, worth of hit songs, countless reinventions and controversies. But the charming, inspirational woman I met that day certainly didn’t disappoint.
THE FIVE QUESTIONS I’VE ALWAYS WANTED TO ASK MADONNA
#1 You look amazing for your age. Tell me your beauty secrets…
In the morning, I have a tendency to get up with my kids before they go to school and then go back to sleep and sneak in a few more hours, because I don’t usually go to bed until late. So I wake up twice, or I wake up once and I’m very grumpy for the rest of the day. I splash cold water on my face and use Japanese eye drops that really burn my eyes, and that makes me wake up. I use this new line of products by Eminence. They contain all-natural ingredients. Everything they make smells like food, so facial cleansers smell like blueberries [Blueberry Soy Exfoliating Cleanser, £29], the toning serum smells like strawberry [Strawberry Rhubarb Hyaluronic Serum, £29], and the body scrub smells like coconut [Coconut Sugar Scrub, £35]. At night I brush and floss my teeth and I don’t think I’ve ever gone to sleep with make-up on. I hang up my clothes and wash my face.